It Reflects On You

I take it personally when "friends" decline my wedding invitations. The attitude simply reeks of shallow memory and self-centred pre-occupations. To these people, it reflects on you!

The sour stench instantly becomes so overbearing that beyond my stubborn will (not that I resist a lot, really), I've decided we are no longer friends. It certainly reflects on me.

Those tacky F-words

I've decided that friends are not really up to me to decide. Because the only good I get out of jumping to conclusions (thinking they are friends when they aren't) is a hearty slap on the cheek when I extend wedding invitations.

Ok, so it's nothing physical, but they do (kindly) reject my goodwill, which still amounts to a non-negligible portion of hurt. Either ways, my reaction remains the same: "Ouch!"

Reality checks amidst my wedding preparations - extremely helpful, extremely unwelcome ;)